Wil, thanks for the welcome you sent me.  I have enjoyed getting to view you thru your pics and also reading about your goals.  This one is stated in a good way.  Doesn’t seem like it should be so hard, yet, if I were single, I think any type of forcing this issue would create alot of frustration.  Maybe that’s one of those areas where synchronicity would be greatly appreciated.  Here’s to the power of attraction (as in attractor fields).  Dee

Wil, thank you for the welcome you sent me as well.  I have been trying to explain to myself the difference between two types of love … your little ditty “find my soulmate, nah find someone who loves compatiblly” is so far the best way I have it heard it described.  Thank you!

Hi Wil, finding my soulmate was easy - he found me.  Actually giving in and admitting that they are your soulmate is a bit more difficult.  When I was 15 I had an extremely vivid dream,  I was in a nightclub with round tables.  In   my dream the people around me had all frozen and every thing was still and quiet.  A tall man walked across the room and threaded his way between the tables and took my hand.  When I woke up I realised that I had dreamt about the man I was to marry.       …and then I forgot about the dream.  3 years later I was in a night club with some friends and a tall man walked through the tables towards me and asked me to dance - thats how we met.  20 years later we have our moments and moods but theres no-one else I would rather be with…